Gay men work at being so hot and well groomed, put together and fresh! Then we have the Lesbians, FATTTTT, comfortable,out of fashion, no make up to speak of and of course no dresses, heels or anything sexy! WHYYYYYYYYYYY? You want to be with a women, why not date a hot one? Be hot yourself, then date as sexy as you are!!!!!!! Seems the playing field is so uneven! I saw two very large lesbians as a couple, they looked dowdy and homely! Again Why? Work on your package god gave you Lesbians, be proud to be a women, dress great! Lesbians are so behind the times in fashion! I have many gay friends and wonder why do they look so bad???? Ladies get to the gym, take care of your self, get filler, botox, wear a little makeup! Gay men are always the head of the fashion pack, while the lesbians think Lands End is High End Designer clothing! I tried to help a very overweight lesbian look more fem, well it all backfired!!!!! She got so mad and said I was controlling her!!!!! No women, you look like a hot fashion mess!!!!! All her selfies are a head shots with clevage. As if we can’t figure out your very large! Stop with the headshots! Always in a fedora, their played out now! Besides being extremely over weight and packed in clothes that did not fit her, I tried to work my gay man gene and whip up a fashionista! Well she back looking like that plump, comfortable, badly dressed lesbian, in a blink of an eye! So out of fashion!!!! So not even current! Still wearing last year trends! Do they neverread or look at Vogue or Allure? I guess not!